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nurturing creativity and joy: the story of 'the orange trove'
At 'the orange trove', we focus on nurturing the incredible potential within our children and our inner child. They possess an innate balance—a unique amalgamation of masculine and feminine qualities. This intrinsic balance greatly contributes to their remarkable potential for creating wondrous change and transformation. By nurturing your child and encouraging them to express themselves through creativity, playfulness, and wonder, we can infuse vitality and joy into their lives. Similarly, with our inner child, resides a playful spirit within us as adults; nurturing this aspect of ourselves can create wondrous change and infuse vitality and joy into our lives. From my perspective, we should not confine ourselves to thinking solely inside or outside the box; instead, we should play with its contents and creatively utilise the box itself. It is crucial to activate our inner child and ignite our creativity.
By allowing ourselves to approach situations unconventionally, we can distance ourselves from societal problems. When we embrace the energy of allowance, with anticipation and excitement, solutions naturally flow to us. If we yearn to experience a more meaningful life, the life our soul desires, it necessitates playfulness and lightheartedness rather than seriousness and heaviness, embodying the belief that "the purpose of life is joy" and encouraging us to "follow our joy." Our joy is intricately connected to our excitement and passion for life and is often associated with our Sacral Chakra. Joy is also intertwined with positive emotions, including gratitude, love, serenity, and bliss. It is a potent emotion that can uplift our spirits and create a ripple effect, spreading its contagious nature and enhancing our overall sense of purpose, meaning, and connectedness in life.
Consequently, it is imperative that we pursue our joy, as it can change and evolve from one moment to the next. So, I ask you, what does joy mean to you in this very moment? As we delve into the profound impact of joy, it becomes clear that navigating our journeys guided by this powerful emotion is essential. Intriguingly, I've generally followed my joy, even though my light felt dim for forty-odd years of my life. This was influenced by my upbringing with my parents, with whom I felt a lack of emotional connection, and with one of them, I experienced a sense of discomfort and felt unacknowledged and unaccepted. I was an extremely sensitive child; however, I kept this aspect of myself hidden. Although sensitivity is a natural aspect of a child's development, my emotional openness to animals and nature heightened my awareness.
As I grew up, societal norms, ingrained backward beliefs, and an imbalance of rational thinking over emotional thinking/feeling and intuition made me thick-skinned. However, I have now returned to an innate balance, being more in tune with my surroundings and sensitive to sensory inputs and the energetic frequencies in people, animals, and my environment, just as I was as a child. Therefore, I shy away from people and environments similar to my upbringing that do not resonate with my energetic frequency. Due to my upbringing, I spent decades in abusive and emotionally unavailable relationships, as emotional disconnection and discomfort felt normal to me. My romantic relationships mirrored the dynamics I had with my parents because anything else seemed out of the ordinary.
To protect myself, I developed a defense mechanism of emotional detachment and guardedness. What started as a defense mechanism in childhood has not only been healed but has transformed into a conscious understanding that such environments are anything but normal and extremely unhealthy. I now acknowledge and accept with no judgment, that my parental upbringing created the person I am today; this is where my journey began, and I truly bless them for it, as the heat I felt throughout life refined me into my authentic self today. For forty-odd years, I found myself facing a dark night of the soul, with obstacles continuously thrown at me. Lessons had to be learned, and karmic relationships had to run their course in divine timing, providing a profound opportunity for healing and personal growth.
Regardless, I love my parents, understanding that this behaviour within my family is generational wounding, and my romantic relationships were essentially the wounded hurting the wounded. This was their role in my life, part of their own journey, and I attracted these romantic relationships to heal the parts within myself that needed healing, to break generational wounding, and to break free from the cycles. Despite the challenges, I harbor no ill feelings and I am at peace with the past. This journey of understanding and acceptance became even more poignant as everything fell into place, culminating in my most significant ending—a karmic cycle and a dark night of the soul—all converging at the end of 2023 and on my 45th birthday in February 2024.
In alignment with the pursuit of joy, the colour orange can evoke feelings of joy and happiness, it also symbolizes warmth and enthusiasm. It is a colour that stimulates creativity, excitement, and sparks imagination. Experience 'the orange trove' and let it Illuminate your child’s learning journey through the transformative power of play. Discover moments of joyful exploration where children can fully immerse themselves in a world of endless possibilities. Within this realm, their imaginations run free, and their minds are lit up with excitement. Through our carefully curated toys, we aim to inspire adults and children to think innovatively, express themselves freely, and discover the joy of learning in a way that is both captivating and empowering.